by Rev. Kara Hillhouse, Rev. Roberto Ochoa, and Rev. Robin Blakemore
Remember this, my dear sisters and brothers: be quick to listen, but slow to speak, and slow to anger[.]— James 1:19
Week 2 — LISTENING
Hearing Before Speaking
Scriptural Focus:
John 4:1-16 — Jesus and the Samaritan Woman at the Well
A Simple Practice for Today:
For Individuals
Practice one conversation this week where your only goal is to listen, not respond.
Ask one genuine follow-up question – or – Reflect back what they heard before responding.
For Congregations or Groups
Try Closing your small group, bible study, or meeting with this reflective prayer practice:
Each person offers one sentence: “Today/Tonight I heard…”
- Not what you’re still thinking about.
- Not what you want to add.
- Not what you disagree with.
After each offering, share a simple reflective line: “Lord give us ears to hear.”
Simple Prayer:
God who listens, quiet our need to respond too quickly. Teach us to hear one another with patience, humility, and grace. Amen.
Hearing Before Speaking … a conversation with Rev. Kara Hillhouse, Rev. Roberto Ochoa, and Rev. Robin Blakemore